hey...good morning
i got to know that your family loves for whatever the reason was that you did something wrong. Sometime's it appears to be unrealistic but your family is almost the ONLY thing that you can count on ALL the time..... If you are not smart enough to learn from your mistakes and do something stupid right the next day, then that's your own fault. If your parents get so mad that they feel like there's no other way to get through to you, you should know that you disapoint them. They will think that they don't have you under "control" anymore. Even if your family expanded your parents will still love you the same as they love you sibling, not more and not less. Sure Parents get disapointed all the time, but that's just because they don't know another way to get YOUR head clear. Why would you do something stupid over and over again? That would not be a mistake it would be on purpose (however you spell that ;)) And how are your parents supposed to figure out how you are going to feel better about yourself by not punishing you. They are just showing you that you did something wrong and the most important thing is: "No matter what happens your parents love you and will always be there for you...."